Wow, what a weekend! For those of you that didn’t make it, this weekend was the first ever Cathsoc retreat! It was a fantastic three days for those that attended, at St Antony’s Church in Forest Gate, the new base for Father Thomas and the other Brothers of St John. It was made even more beautiful and memorable by the fact that the whole stay was punctuated by falls of snow, covering the church and gardens in a wonderful white blanket.
We’ll now run through the whole weekend and put in a selection of pictures at each point we possibly can.
The weekend started on Friday evening with a dinner of soup, bread and cheese followed by Movie Night. The movie this week was Of Gods and Men, a French-language film set in the mountains of Algeria in 1996. Particularly relevant this week as several hostages including British people were killed by terrorists in the same country, the film follows a group of devout monks whose community live in fear of a group of Islamic extremist terrorists who are roaming the countryside killing anyone who doesn’t fit in with their particular view of the Koran. Obviously, this also puts the lives of the Catholic monks in danger. This excellent film, based on a true story, was really moving and made all of us reflect on how we might react in a life-threatening situation, in a Godly way.
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Getting ready to watch the movie, including the Coke and cakes!
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The next morning, for the hardy among us, saw early morning prayers with the brothers (ok, Antonisia and I didn’t make it for that!), followed by breakfast at 8am. This was followed at 8.30am by a session with Brother John Soosai who gave us an introduction to the Bible and then a Lectio Divina. The Lectio Divina on this day was focused on Mark 2: 13-17, when Jesus meets Levi on the road and then is criticised by the Pharisees for eating with ‘tax collectors and sinners’. We had several interesting debates on this, looking at the history and prejudices of the time, as well as the deeper meanings of why Jesus came to Earth (as he says, to help the sinners).
A busy morning continued with Mass in the church led by Father Thomas. Here is a selection of pictures from the service.
Following mass, we had our first spiritual conference at 11.30am. This was taken by Father Thomas and was on the subject of hope and faith. We talked particularly about God’s promises to us and our deepest hope which is for eternal life and to see the face of God. We had some great debate, followed at 12.45 by midday prayers with the brothers in the chapel. This was a nice, short reflective time.
Lunch was at 1pm, and was a hearty meal of fish and chips! This went down very well and a good time was had by all. We then had a short period of free time afterwards, during which we played giant Jenga in the chapel room. This was great fun and a good way to get to know those who we didn’t know so well before.
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Lunch time
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Jenga begins
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Working out the maths…
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Careful!
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How much higher…..?
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Proud of our tower…
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And there it goes!
Then, it was off to West Ham Memorial Park, a beautiful park run and maintained by the City of London Corporation. This park is just a few minutes walk from the church, and the covering of snow on the ground gave the whole place a serene and peaceful feeling. We were there, of course, for a Rosary Walk – another first for the UEL Cathsoc. This was a very prayerful and beautiful walk, in which we said the Rosary over a period of an hour as we walked around the park. At each decade we stopped and were given a short talk by either Father Thomas or Brother John Soosai. As the pictures show, this was one of the high points of the weekend.
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Introducing the Rosary Walk
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We’re not cold, honest…!
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Antonisia at the back of the group
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John (right), Christina (left)
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A brief stop in the ornamental garden
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Snowball time!
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A group shot!
On our return, we warmed up with some afternoon tea (and cake!) before 5pm Vespers:
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The Brothers of St John
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Brother Mairesean
This was followed by a spiritual conference with Father Benedict, this time focused around hope and the role of Mary. Again, this was an important time of learning, which gave us the opportunity to talk to Father Benedict about various questions and reflections on the issue of hope. Next was dinner and then at 9pm an hour of Adoration during which we also had some acoustic guitar music played sensitively and wonderfully by Brother Mairesean. The period of Adoration was beautiful, quiet, reflective and a real time of God sharing his presence with us after a busy day of activities. We then went to bed in silent reflection.
Sunday morning brought more snow! (and this continued most of the day). The day began again with breakfast before we headed upstairs for a spiritual conference with Brother Mairesean. This was again on the subject of hope, which was the theme of the weekend, and we looked here at various issues related to human hope and divine hope, and the difference between the two.
A Lectio Divina followed this, with Brother John Soosai, and we looked here at the gospel reading for the day, which was the passage in John’s gospel, where Jesus turned water into wine at Cana. Some of the observations we made as a group were the fact that Jesus referred to Mary as ‘woman’ rather than ‘mother’ and that it was interesting that this was the first sign of his real mission on Earth. At 11.30am, the main event of the day arrived, of course, with the main Sunday Mass service. Of course, the weather had an impact on the number of people attending but it was still a lovely service.
All that remained for the retreat now was lunch, but we finished the day off in style with a great roast chicken dinner and DELICIOUS dessert. By the way, a MASSIVE thank you to Wendy, the brothers’ cook, who throughout the weekend made sure that we were all well fed. This was followed by coffee and chocolates! Following this, we bade each other farewell and headed off into the snow… I think I speak for everyone attending, though, when I say it was a fantastic three days and something that Cathsoc should definitely look at replicating or doing again in a different way (for instance, Father Thomas spoke about maybe having a retreat for men, and another retreat for women). I’m sure that any ideas will be gratefully received, either via comments here or by emailing Father Thomas.
So, to finish, I think I once again speak for everyone when I also say a big thank you to Father Thomas and the brothers for their super hospitality. What a great idea and what a great weekend! And thanks to all the rest of our Cathsoc-ers who made the weekend the success it was. Here are just a few more pictures to round off this post…
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Most of the retreat team…
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And alright then, some lovely ‘snow’ pictures (mostly), including the church’s very own resident fox!
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Here comes the snow again…
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Car starting to be covered (it got a lot worse)
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I love the snow…
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Breakfast time
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Father Thomas and Antonisia
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You looking at me?!
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A fox on the prowl…
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Blizzard conditions
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Tags: antonisia schroder, brother mairesean, brothers of st john, catholic, catholic society, cathsoc, father thomas, johnathan schroder, st antony's, uel, university of east london